Posted by W*** Long please, I have a question.  I am a Christian and a virgin.  I want a girlfriend but I am worried about the sex part.  Is it a sin to have a girlfriend and have sex with her?

Yes.  Sex outside of marriage is sin (Ex 20:14).  Don’t defile yourself (Ga 6:7). You’ll regret it (Heb 13:4).  God’s way is the best way (Eccl 10:2, Jn 10:10).  Don’t believe the world (1 Jn 2:15).  Satan has nothing beautiful to offer you (Jas 1:15).  You must upkeep what he provides. :reals: What God provides lasts (1 Co 13:8).:straight:

...How are your kids?  

We are estranged. They follow their adulterer dad (Mt 18:15–20, 1 Co 5:11).  As a reminder, Thyatira is promised to go into the Great Tribulation if they do not repent (Re 2:18–29).:rapture:


Please, what do you mean by adulterer dad?

My husband committed adultery--divorced me, ran off with his secretary (Ex 20:14, Ps. 26:5, Mal 2:14, Heb 13:4).


Oh, I am so sorry about that.  Do you have a new guy to love now?


Rom. 7:2, 3

Please, you saw the message I sent you?


Did you see the message I sent you? Matt. 5:32  

Romans 7:2;3?


I am Christian.  That means I follow Christ. :idea:


For the woman who has a husband is bound by the law to her husband as long as he lives. But if the husband dies, she is released from the law of her husband. So then if, while her husband lives, she marries another man, she will be called an adulteress; but if her husband dies, she is free from that law, so that she is no adulteress, though she has married another man. Romans 7:2–3 (NKJV)

But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery. Matthew 5:32 (NKJV)

No, I'm not a whore.  :squint: Thanks for asking.


It means you can't marry again?

I am married (Rom. 7:2, 3). :dizzy: The world makes it up as they go along (Mt 19:6, Heb 13:4). I do not. 

But your husband committed adultery, right?

He did (Deut 24:4, Jer 3:1). 

But do guys try to date you?

My bridegroom protects me (Ge 20:3–6).

Your ex-husband? 

There's not such thing as x.  :dizzy: My husband wasn't jealous for me (Matt. 19:6, Eph. 5:23–32).  The Lord is (Re 3:9). My husband will approach a holy God at the Great White Throne without his אִשָּׁה [ʾishshah'] (fire of life) :scripto: [Prov. 2:16–19, Mal 2:5, 16, Heb 10:31, 12:29, 1 Pe 3:7].  I will approach the bema seat having passed from death to life where I will be rewarded for faithfulness (Ru 1:14–18, 1 Pe 1:16, 1 Jn 3:14, Re 20:6).  God's name is being dragged through the mud in my home--for now (Eze 36:16-24). He will be glorified (Pr 1:26).

"I am extraordinarily patient, provided I get my own way in the end." ~ Margaret Thatcher  2 Thess 1:6


Recommend reading:

The Divorce Myth by J. Carl Laney  

Cool, if you are able to stay.


Mt 19:11, Jn 6:68